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Claire Boucher: The sports world is so different from what we normally engage with, so it was like this voyeuristic look into a really violent community. Art gives me an outlet where I can be aggressive in a world where I usually can’t be, and part of it was asserting this abstract female power in these male-dominated arenas— the video is somewhat about objectifying men. Not in a disrespectful way, though.

Emily Kai Bock: It’s about the gladiator archetype and how boys are predisposed to that as a universal role model, which always seemed silly to me. Girls don’t have the same pressure to measure up that way, but they have different pressures. I really like the metaphor of Claire entering these typically-male territories and being like, “What’s up, I’m here to sing my song.” In a way, it represents how it feels as a girl in the film and music worlds, because we sometimes get a sense of not being taken as seriously.

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Grimes: “Oblivion” Claire Boucher and Emily Kai Bock talk about their dreamy, subversive video.

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Via Tightrope Books.

Via Tightrope Books.

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"…I have no guilt. I seek pleasure. I seek the nerves under your skin. The narrow archway; the layers; the scroll of ancient letters. We worship the flaw, the belly, the belly, the mole on the belly of an exquisite whore. He spared the child and spoiled the rod. I have not sold myself to God."

— Patti Smith, Babelogue

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"Here’s the truth of it: the game makes sense. Down there on the field we know just what’s at stake, it’s some cleaner, truer expression of ourselves. It’s something to make the hair on our arms stand up, something to hold dear and pass along and worry over. But here’s the rest of that truth: it promises more torment and frustration than most of us would willingly invite into our lives. It requires loss, and pain, and heartbreak. It is not easy, not if you’re doing it right."

— Andrew Forbes, Home.

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The recent Boston Marathon bombing reinforced the notion that I shouldn’t wait for the circumstances of my coming out to be perfect. Things can change in an instant, so why not live truthfully? When I told Joe a few weeks ago that I was gay, he was grateful that I trusted him. He asked me to join him in 2013. We’ll be marching on June 8.

No one wants to live in fear. I’ve always been scared of saying the wrong thing. I don’t sleep well. I never have. But each time I tell another person, I feel stronger and sleep a little more soundly. It takes an enormous amount of energy to guard such a big secret. I’ve endured years of misery and gone to enormous lengths to live a lie. I was certain that my world would fall apart if anyone knew. And yet when I acknowledged my sexuality I felt whole for the first time. I still had the same sense of humor, I still had the same mannerisms and my friends still had my back.

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“Why NBA center Jason Collins is coming out now,” Sports Illustrated.

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"Look. Here’s what this silly joke article means. Marriage for marriage’s sake isn’t how people become happy. Married you will be no happier than single you. Changing your own unhealthy impulses, for the sake of marriage as an end in itself, is not a healthy impulse. There are no “types” of people that “men” or “women” want to marry, and there’s no listicle that’s going to heal your loneliness. There are people and then there are other people and sometimes people fall in love with each other despite their faults and they get married or they don’t and it works out or it doesn’t. So work on yourself, fine—work on your bee beard, work on your clinginess—but do it because it’s good for you. Making marriage your goal (instead of, say, happiness! Or compatibility!) is like saving up all your money to buy a really expensive lottery ticket. Quit it."

10 Types of Men That Women Definitely Do NOT Want to Marry! (via gruntledandhinged)

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i dont want my words to be taken out of context

i dont want to be infantilized because i refuse to be sexualized

i dont want to be molested at shows or on the street by people who perceive me as an object that exists for their personal satisfaction

i dont want to live in a world where…

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"That’s baseball, man. We’re missing some guys, but we can’t make excuses. We’re facing good pitching, but we can do a better job at the plate. It’s a long season, though. What do we have, about 150 games left?"

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